So it's the second day into the year 2010. I'm sure resolutions have been prepared (by most people, anyway). Resolutions, in my opinion, is an extremely personal piece of information. Frankly, for me, it's privacy settings is no less than a personal diary.
When we prepare a resolution, we reflect upon what we did in the past year (and also what we did not do). Reflection is after all, the first step to preparing a sound, logical resolution. Because only we ourselves know full well personally in good conscience what was done and what wasn't (but was supposed to be done). All of these are in our conscience, we need not announce them to the whole world.
There are many many ways to make a resolution work. Some favour a cold, cut-and-dried system using timetables, action plans, reviews, follow-ups et cetera. However, others might prefer a more holistic, personal and human approach. It's all in the mind, they say. However effective action plans might be, those are impersonal. Their effectiveness arises from the fact that they're imposing rigid guidelines on how one should carry out a task to achieve a target. It does not take into account the moral-righteousness of the target. It does not take into account the mindset of the person carrying out the task. It's inhuman.
Contrastingly, a holistic approach in making resolutions succeed might be considerably less systematic. However, what's important in our endeavours is that we're totally, passionately committed to it and we set our mind to achieving that goal. When the mindset is properly orientated, that's really more than enough. The power of the mind is remarkably immesurable. It actually behaves like gravity. It's there. It's just up to us to utilise it properly.
So, which way?